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October 26, 2006 - One big happy (dysfunctional) family - Daily Devotional

Friday, October 27, 2006
 

October 26, 2006


One big happy (dysfunctional) family
by John Fischer

The family that thrives is the one that can absorb conflict and failure and still exhibit love and acceptance at the end of the day. The family that fears its conflict and buries its unseemliness under a cloak of good impressions is the one that creates highly dysfunctional people who lug around suitcases of unresolved baggage and never get down to the real thing. Sometimes maintaining a “happy” family can be the worst thing you can do. It can drive a lot of powerful emotions underground, where they will eventually surface in unhealthy ways.

How much of being a Christian and going to church is all about appearances? Too much, at least in my experience. Too many of us act as if it were our responsibility to make God look good by showing ourselves as shiny, happy people. In the end, we make God look bad, because we are dishonest in the worst sort of way; we are dishonest with ourselves. Do this long enough and you lose track of who you really are. I find a lot of Christians get so far removed from who they are that they need professional counseling to help them face the truth about themselves. Most of this comes from getting good at living an impression rather than living the truth. We are too good for our own good.

Why is it that PKs and MKs (preacher’s kids and missionary’s kids) always seem to have a reputation of being the most troubled kids in the church? Because pastors and missionaries have the most pressure on their families to maintain the best possible reputation. After all, isn’t everyone looking to them to model the happy, successful Christian family? And so a disconnect develops between who we are and who we appear to be, and the wider that gulf, the more unhealthy the person.

How do we fix this? Give up pretext and love each other for the messes that we are. Isn’t that the way God loves us? He sent his son to die for us while we were still in our sin, and that death is like a billboard for why we continually need him.

“Oh, foolish Galatians! What magician has cast an evil spell on you? For you used to see the meaning of Jesus Christ's death as clearly as though I had shown you a signboard with a picture of Christ dying on the cross.” (Galatians 3:1 NLT)

“Have you lost your senses?” Paul wrote to the Galatians. “After starting your Christian lives in the Spirit, why are you now trying to become perfect by your own human effort?” (Galatians 3:3 NLT)

Our human effort always tries to cover everything up. Our life in the spirit brings it all out into the open because Jesus died so we wouldn’t have to hide. Let’s love each other for who we are, instead of trying so hard to be loved for who we are not.


John Fischer resides in Southern California with his wife, Marti and son, Chandler. They also have two adult children, Christopher and Anne. John is a published author and popular speaker.

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10 Useless or Even Dangerous First Aid Myths at Ririan Project

Thursday, October 26, 2006
10 Useless or Even Dangerous First Aid Myths at Ririan Project

We all know some remedy myths or old wives tales, but some of them have no effect on conditions, ailments, or illnesses of the human body. If you try any of these myths, you may run the risk of having an adverse reaction or the opposite result of what you would like to happen. So here are ten classic emergency fixes that definitely won’t do in a pinch: (Click to read on...)
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SCMP editorial -- True religious freedom should be permitted

Tuesday, October 24, 2006
Tuesday, October 24, 2006

EDITORIAL/LEADER

True religious freedom should be permitted

Trying to tear down the facade of religious freedom in a place where the churches are subject to tight governmental supervision requires courage as well as tact. To his credit, Rowan Williams, the Archbishop of Canterbury, has done just that without openly offending his host.

Rounding up a two-week visit to China that took him to five cities, the head of the Anglican Church paid tribute to a "growing spirit of openness" on the mainland. But in his valedictory sermon, he also stressed a need for mainland Christians to develop "a freedom that allows them to see the truth about themselves and their society".

The subtext of his message cannot be clearer - despite the greater freedom that mainland Christians have been allowed, enabling them to practise their faith, they are not really free to articulate their religious values in public discourse.

In recent years, Beijing has done a lot to rectify the excesses of past suppression of Christianity and other religions. Churches and temples damaged during the Cultural Revolution have been restored and seminaries reopened to train a new generation of religious leaders. The Bible and other religious materials can now be published and distributed reasonably freely.

But in a country where the governing ideology is communism, which extols atheism, the State Administration for Religious Affairs still exercises tight control over all religious organisations. Intermittent harassment of underground churches shows that Beijing is serious about maintaining a firm grip over religion, as it does over other areas of civil society. While mainland followers of various religions can now openly practise their faith, they are conspicuously absent in campaigns for social justice, unlike their counterparts in other parts of the world.

A touch of utilitarianism can be discerned in state leaders' recent utterances about religion. In his meeting with Archbishop Williams, for example, Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference chairman Jia Qinglin said he saw closer ties between the Anglican Church and mainland Christian churches as part of multi-layered exchanges between China and Britain that also encompassed their governments, parliaments and political parties. He told the visitor that China was trying to build a harmonious society and that religion could play a positive role in fostering social harmony.

In other words, religion is not being recognised for its intrinsic worth in meeting the spiritual needs of the people. It is a tool to be harnessed by the authorities to achieve social harmony. What would happen, however, if the churches dared to rally their followers to speak up on social issues such as the environment and death penalty, as Archbishop Williams suggested? Would they be tolerated, silenced or encouraged? Judging from the authorities' harsh response to such deeds by other groups, the churches are unlikely to be handled differently, which is a shame.

Sociologists have referred to a confidence crisis that permeates the mainland, where people's traditional values of right and wrong have been wrecked, first by the Cultural Revolution and then by the penchant for material wealth. Under the circumstances, personal distress caused by the huge social and economic changes that have engulfed the mainland is driving increasing numbers of mainlanders to seek comfort in religion.

The leadership has wisely recognised the growing demand for religion and allowed mainstream religions to flourish without too much interference. But its refusal to re-establish official relations with the Vatican shows that it remains deeply sceptical of foreign interference in the operation of mainland churches. It is also evidently worried that religion could provide an alternative source of authority to the Communist Party. But a country that truly respects freedom of religion should impose no restrictions on what its people choose to believe in. Genuine social harmony lies in not just tolerating, but respecting, diversity - in religion as well in other areas of human life.


Published in the South China Morning Post. Copyright © 2006. All rights reserved.

 
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Let's start talking with Jajah!

Saturday, October 21, 2006
Some of you "out there" among our far-flung family & friends may remember that I blogged about Jajah before. Afterward, becuase I had trouble with my Jajah account, I sort of put it on the back burner for a while.

Well, I checked it out again recently, and it's better than ever! You can now call any other active Jajah member in any country FOR FREE! The connections are phone to phone, not VOIP or computer-to-computer or computer to phone. The calls are initiated on the internet, but the connections are made between standard landline phones—like the ones in your home or office—or even between mobile phones.

If the person you ar calling is not an "active" Jajah member, the cost per minute is still only about US$0.02 (two cents) per minute between (for example) Taiwan<>USA. The set up online is simple and there is no software to download.

Check it out at https://www.jajah.com/ and let's start talking!

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Unwelcome excitement on the "home front"...

Meth bust in Springfield is one of biggest in years
by Marie Saavedra, KY3 News SPRINGFIELD --

Police busted a meth lab late Wednesday night in south Springfield and said it's one of the biggest they've seen in quite some time. "You can never tell who's cooking meth anymore. They could be your nice neighbors next door and you think they're ideal people, and all of a sudden, there they are," said James Fowler, the owner of the Timbercrest Mobile Home Park.

The mobile home park mentioned in this TV broadcast is the one that that David & Jennifer and their kids live in. Wow! If we weren't praying for our kidz families in the USA daily—which we ARE!—we sure would be now! -- Chuck

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LangaList Plus Edition 2006-10-19

Thursday, October 19, 2006
From LangaList Plus Edition 2006-10-19:
"One of the best, but least appreciated, approaches is education--- both yours and theirs. Some parents, for example, spend time and effort blocking adult Web sites, but don't realize that non-adult sites like MySpace, or applications like instant messaging, can be sources of both inappropriate content and exposure to online predators. It's important for you to know where the risks are. And it's a good idea to have occasional, frank conversations with your teen about the risks and dangers out there. After all, you can lock down your home PC, but most kids have access to other PCs as well, at the library, school and in the homes of friends. Making your kids generally self-resistant to the lure of online evils is often a better approach, in the long run, than trying to shield them from all those evils in all their forms on all their sites."
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Walking the plank - by Maxine Fream

Wednesday, October 18, 2006
Good advice from a wise lady!
-- Chuck
 
From: Maxine Fream Gash [mailto:mackydcc@yahoo.com]
Sent: Wednesday, October 18, 2006 8:57 AM
To: Dear Hearts and Gentle People
Subject: Walking the plank

Roy Lincoln is a Bible class teacher in the College Heights Church in Joplin where we attend. He and his wife, Pat, frequently entertain at their lovely home and we were privileged to be among their guests last week.
 
Roy is kin to Abraham Lincoln, sharing a common ancestor with Abe’s great-grand-father.  Roy’s family lived in Illinois in Lincoln’s day, and were able to take a covered wagon to Springfield for a celebration when Abe was elected President.
 
Roy relates another incident that took place when his grandfather was seventeen.  Joseph Smith was just getting started with his “Mormon” religion in those days, and he had announced all around that at a certain place and at a certain time, he was going to walk on water!  Well, Roy’s grandfather and a group of teenagers went to the site ahead of time and found the planks that had been laid for a walkway a few inches below the surface of the water.  It didn’t take them long to decide what to do. They carefully removed one of the planks.  You can well imagine the rest!  Needless to say, Roy’s family never had anything to do with Joe Smith and his “Book of Mormon”! 
 
The apostle Paul warned:  “For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. So it is no surprise if his servants, also, disguise themselves as servants of righteousness.  Their end will correspond to their deeds.”  2 Cor. 11:13,14
 
The real Savior of the world, who did walk on water, without hidden planks or fanfare, did so in the dark of night to rescue his disciples who were in the middle of the lake struggling against the stormy elements and a contrary wind.
 
There are always those who prefer fairy tales to the truth, such as those who believe that despite all the evidence around us that the world and all that is in it was designed by a masterful Creator, that it all happened “by chance.”  Oh sure!  Go try walking on water.  But better be sure all your planks are in place. 
 
In the Lamb,
Maxine 
 
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October 17, 2006 - Whom can I serve? - Daily Devotional


 

October 17, 2006


Whom can I serve?
by John Fischer

Whose needs can I meet?
Where can I serve?
What can I give you?
Why are you doing that all by yourself?
Who needs something that I can give?
When do you need me?
Are you OK?
Can I get you something?

What’s common about all these questions? They are all seeking a way to serve without waiting to be asked. We were put on earth to make a contribution, but no assignments are given out. Part of serving is looking for and finding the need so you can do something about it before it becomes an issue.

A lot of this is in how we think. It’s all about becoming other-conscious versus self-conscious.  Being self-conscious is what happens without any effort. It’s the natural human way of going about our lives. Becoming other-conscious is what happens with some effort and the Spirit of God to empower us.

We were not made to go at it alone. We were made to serve each other so that in community, we all get our needs met. It’s a little like saying, “I’ll scratch your back, and you scratch mine,” but more complicated in that we are all gifted to meet each other’s needs in different areas and different ways that only the Holy Spirit could arrange.

It’s the consciousness that is the key. That and the commitment that once we become aware of a need we can meet, we will immediately do something about it.

Peter told us to be eager to do good (1 Peter 3:13). It’s always been interesting to me that he didn’t tell us to go out and do good. He said to be eager to do good. That means we are consciously aware of opportunities to serve. If you weren’t thinking along these lines you might miss all kinds of opportunities to serve. But anyone who is eager to do something is looking for it.

If you’re eager to go fishing, you’re going to be looking for the next free day on your calendar.  If you are eager to play tennis, you will be on the lookout for a suitable partner to play with. In the same way, if you are eager to do good, you will be keenly aware of opportunities to serve others as they arise. It’s all in our awareness.

You might want to go over the questions again at the beginning of this devotional and see if anyone comes to mind as you go through them. Then make a plan to reach out to that person in some way. And finally, think about how you can get into an other-conscious groove. Anticipate needs. Be eager to serve. Ask God to bring these things to mind at all times, that becoming aware of those around you might become a habit you just can’t shake!


John Fischer resides in Southern California with his wife, Marti and son, Chandler. They also have two adult children, Christopher and Anne. John is a published author and popular speaker.

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SCMP Taipei column - Holiday mood

Saturday, October 14, 2006
 
Thursday, October 12, 2006
Holiday mood

MICHAEL FAHEY

Taiwan was plunged into chaos last week - but not by the national pastime of political demonstrations. Rather, it was an unexpected five-day holiday: the government suddenly extended the Mid-Autumn Festival to include Friday and Tuesday.

With no time to make new plans, most Taipei residents celebrated this ancient harvest festival as usual - with the modern rituals of barbecuing and going for road trips. Every year at this time, disgruntled cultural conservatives write in to major daily newspapers complaining that the festival's true spirit has been replaced by mindless consumption. No longer do multi-generational families gather in the courtyards of traditional houses to make offerings to ancestors and eat a family meal bathed in moonlight.

Gone are quaint - but often idealised - customs like sharing mooncakes or hunting for grasshoppers. They've been replaced with a nationwide party on city streets and country roads. Massive quantities of meat and seafood are grilled, then washed down with prodigious quantities of the island's beloved Taiwan Beer or Hey Song sarsaparilla.

To get an idea of the scale of this party, consider the case of the mainland fishing trawler interdicted by Taiwan's coastguard just days before the Mid-Autumn Festival two years ago. In the hold were 3 tonnes of smuggled chicken tail bones - a fatty delicacy for meat skewers. A Tainan-based wholesaler at a traditional market explained that this supply would meet the holiday demand in southern Taiwan for barely one day. Normally, it would be enough for two weeks.

This year, Taipei officially opened its new riverside parks on Friday evening to city residents for barbecuing. Unfortunately, the smoke from thousands of fires in the parks and throughout the city sent so much particulate matter into the air that health warnings were issued for the elderly and those with respiratory problems.

Then Saturday morning dawned. Satiated - and in many cases hungover - Taipei dads packed their families and friends into their shiny new sports utility vehicles and took to the road. The past 10 years of road building have given Taiwan an impressive network of freeways and expressways. Even so, they were overwhelmed by the sheer numbers of vehicles. In the north, traffic jams stretched for 20km as travellers tried to use the new 12.9km Hsuehshan Tunnel. In the far south, 100,000 visitors turned the tropical resort of Kenting into a massive parking lot late on Saturday afternoon.

Even so, most people seemed to enjoy themselves thoroughly. Taiwanese have found new ways to celebrate this most traditional of holidays. But their love for the buzzing excitement of the crowd - while surrounded by an inner circle of family and friends - remains entirely undiminished.


Published in the South China Morning Post. Copyright © 2006. All rights reserved.

 
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October 10, 2006 - Called and sent - Daily Devotional

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

 

October 10, 2006


Called and sent
by John Fischer

You are where you are for a reason. Your vocation, your neighbors, your community, and your many associations are a world you inhabit to which you were sent. Every one of us has a sphere of influence that touches many lives and that involvement makes our relationships eternally significant.

If you ever heard about God sending people to the mission field and assumed that if you didn’t go you are somehow without a mission, this is simply not true. There is absolutely no difference between you and me and a missionary heading out to some dark corner of the world. We are all sent. (Besides, dark corners are everywhere.)

Wherever you go you represent Christ because you know him, and your mission is to introduce him to people who haven’t met him yet. The opportunity to do this is generated by respect. As we walk through our communities and workplaces, we can generate an interest in Christ by extending the same respect for others that Christ has extended to us. We do this regardless of whether we like someone or not, or whether they have been mean or unfair to us. Respect is something every human being deserves, regardless, because everyone is made in the image of God and as such reflects something of the Creator’s likeness. Peter wrote to us about always being ready to explain our hope, but to do it “with gentleness and respect.” (1 Peter 3:16 NIV)

And if it is hard to respect someone, remember Christ initiated a relationship with us while we were dead set against him and still in our sin (Romans 5:6-8). None of us started off this relationship very well, in other words, and yet someone reached out to us through Christ’s love; we can do the same. And we do this – each of us – in the context of the particular cluster of people we know and operate in. No one else has your exact circle of influence. That is an influence all your own – like your own entire mission field.

So never think lightly, or negatively, of your position or your place in life. We’ve all been called and we’ve all been placed right where we are for a reason. And the people around us are that reason. May God open our eyes to the importance of our place in the world and the importance and great value of everyone we encounter today.


John Fischer resides in Southern California with his wife, Marti and son, Chandler. They also have two adult children, Christopher and Anne. John is a published author and popular speaker.

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Did anyone notice the extreme difference?

Monday, October 09, 2006
From: Ari Rocklin
Sent: Thursday, October 05, 2006 12:21 PM
Subject: Did anyone notice the extreme difference?

By now you should have heard about the murders by a madman in the Amish community.
 
Did you happen to notice their reaction to their children being massacered? In case you did not, the Amish people stood around in silence and pledged forgiveness. Not only that, they sent a delegation of elders to the family of the killer, to comfort them and to tell them they forgive.
 
Now, the other extreme? Imagine the same incident, different people, happening somewhere, anywhere in the mslm world?
 
Quiet prayer, forgiveness, reaching out in love to the family of the killer? I should think not...
 
I used to think of the Amish as a silly little sect of people out of touch with reality, I have changed my mind, perhaps I need to learn from them.
 
For what it's worth,
 
Ari
 
Amish grandfather: 'We must not think evil of this man'

PARADISE, Pennsylvania (CNN) -- A grieving grandfather told young relatives not to hate the gunman who killed five girls in an Amish schoolhouse massacre, a pastor said on Wednesday.

"As we were standing next to the body of this 13-year-old girl, the grandfather was tutoring the young boys, he was making a point, just saying to the family, 'We must not think evil of this man,' " the Rev. Robert Schenck told CNN.

"It was one of the most touching things I have seen in 25 years of Christian ministry."

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The Pentagon Looks at the Koran

From:
Sent: Monday, October 09, 2006 1:35 PM
To:
Subject: The Pentagon Looks at the Koran

For those who think the US government never gets anything right... 
The Pentagon Looks at the Koran

A recent Pentagon briefing paper titled, "Motivations of Muslim Suicide Bombers," points to the Koran as the source of the motivation of Islamist bombers, according to an article today in WorldNetDaily.com. This runs quite contrary to the usual U.S. government approach, which insists on seeing suicide terrorists as heretics who follow a perverted form of Islam. A White House report released just this month, for example, the National Strategy for Combating Terrorism," asserts that "The terrorists distort the idea of jihad into a call for violence and murder against those they regard as apostates or unbelievers."

The Pentagon study suggests that intelligence analysts think otherwise, concluding that Muslim suicide bombers are usually students of the Koran motivated by its commands, and acting, by their lights, rationally. Here is a key passage from the WorldNetDaily.com account:

In Islam, it is not how one lives one's life that guarantees spiritual salvation, but how one dies, according to the briefings. There are great advantages to becoming a martyr. Dying while fighting the infidels in the cause of Allah reserves a special place and honor in Paradise. And it earns special favor with Allah. "Suicide in defense of Islam is permitted, and the Islamic suicide bomber is, in the main, a rational actor," concludes a recent Pentagon briefing paper titled, "Motivations of Muslim Suicide Bombers."

"His actions provide a win-win scenario for himself, his family, his faith and his God," the document explains. "The bomber secures salvation and the pleasures of Paradise. He earns a degree of financial security and a place for his family in Paradise. He defends his faith and takes his place in a long line of martyrs to be memorialized as a valorous fighter. And finally, because of the manner of his death, he is assured that he will find favor with Allah," the briefing adds. "Against these considerations, the selfless sacrifice by the individual Muslim to destroy Islam's enemies becomes a suitable, feasible and acceptable course of action."

The briefing – produced by a little-known Pentagon intelligence unit called the Counterintelligence Field Activity, or CIFA – cites a number of passages from the Quran dealing with jihad, or "holy" warfare, martyrdom and Paradise, where "beautiful mansions" and "maidens" await martyr heroes. In preparation for attacks, suicide terrorists typically recite passages from six surahs, or chapters, of the Quran: Baqura (Surah 2), Al Imran (3), Anfal (8), Tawba (9), Rahman (55) and Asr (103).

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